A woman feels her sexiest at 28?

25 Jul

A study of British woman has found that women feel their sexiest at the age of 28. Yes, I know, British women! But it’s probably about right. We probably look our best (but don’t realise it) in our early twenties and then later in the decade have the confidence to actually feel sexy.

This, however, wasn’t the case for me.

In my early twenties I was fat. I’m talking huge! I was only big for a couple of years but because your early twenties is spent going out and having fun, there is way too much photographic evidence of my stress-eating than I’d like. I got a really demanding job and to cope with the pressure I ate everything in sight!

Now, I have been asked to be on a TV commercial for a weight loss company that helped me lose weight and they wanted ‘before’ photos. I am going to bravely post one…


I was the fattest I’ve even been at this, my sister’s wedding and funnily enough a few years later I was the thinnest I’ve ever been at my other sister’s wedding. Where are those pics? So my early twenties were spent stressed, working crazy hours and EATING!

Then, when I was 28 I was heavily pregnant with my first child so feeling sexy wasn’t on my radar then either. I was flat out getting out of a chair, lugging myself around and trying to reach my feet to put on shoes. Not sexy at all!

It’s taken all this time for me to really embrace the feeling of being sexy. I am 36. And I have to say it has a lot to do with being fit and happy and being in a great relationship. The great relationship is key for me. Because we’ve been together for 14 years we know each other really well. All that early awkwardness and insecurity is completely gone. That’s when a woman feels sexy…when she feels happy and secure, not when she is a certain age.

So hats off to the British. Enjoy your youth. I can tell you from Australia that feeling sexy can happen at any age!


La Dolce Vita – Jo Abi

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